Meanings
How to pronounce "play the man and not the ball":
AU
To attack an opponent instead of attacking the ball, which is usually being controlled by the attacked player at the time.
To object to someone's argument by attacking them or a facet of their personality instead of the argument itself; to make an ad hominem attack.
Example Sentences
1
In a debate, it is important to play the man and not the ball by focusing on the arguments presented rather than attacking the person.
2
During negotiations, it is essential to play the man and not the ball to maintain a respectful and productive discussion.
3
During a conflict, it is crucial to play the man and not the ball to avoid personal attacks and maintain a healthy discussion.
4
While reviewing applications, recruiters should play the man and not the ball and focus on candidates' qualifications rather than personal biases.
5
In politics, it is common for opponents to play the man and not the ball by attacking character rather than addressing policy issues.