Meanings
How to pronounce "play the ball and not the man":
AU
To attack the ball instead of an opponent who is usually controlling the ball. Often considered a positive action, and sometimes a requirement not to concede a penalty.
To object to someone's argument by attacking the argument itself instead of them or a facet of their personality; to avoid or make the opposite of an ad hominem attack. Usually considered a positive action, and an avoidance of a fallacious argumentative technique. Often used in comparison to play the man and not the ball.
Example Sentences
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During the debate, it's important to play the ball and not the man by focusing on ideas rather than personal attacks.
2
In a professional environment, it is crucial to maintain a respectful discussion and play the ball and not the man.
3
I appreciate your opinion, but let's stick to the topic and play the ball and not the man.
4
When trying to resolve conflicts, it is best to concentrate on finding a solution and play the ball and not the man.
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Instead of criticizing your opponent directly, try to play the ball and not the man by providing constructive feedback.