Meanings
Possibly from the inconspicuous nature of the violet (genus Viola) flower and plant.[1] The term appears to have been first used in the literal sense in the early 19th century.[2][3]
How to pronounce "shrinking violet":
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A very shy or timid person, who avoids contact with others if possible.
Example: "June, no shrinking violet she, crossed the room and introduced herself to the newcomers."
Example Sentences
1
She's always been a shrinking violet, never one to speak up in a group.
2
He became a shrinking violet when he found himself surrounded by assertive colleagues.
3
Don't expect her to take charge; she's a shrinking violet by nature.
4
Growing up, he was a shrinking violet and struggled to make friends.
5
She's a shrinking violet in social situations and often feels uncomfortable.